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In Jan of 1992, I had been at Duffy's about 9-10 days and had convinced myself that all this "one day at a time" bull was not for me and was ready to leave and continue the insanity. At my afternoon group session I didn't have anything to say and was just waiting for my one on one with a Duffy counselor so I could check out.
As I walked in to her office the first thing she said, "What's wrong? Something on your mind?" I said yes and she said, "You been here about 9-10 days" and again I said yes. She then smiled, and I remember that smile, and she said then you’re in the right place. Then we talked I know we went longer than I should have expected, but she was the right person at the right time for me.
I stayed the remaining 28 days and have been sober ever since. Thank you, Duffy counselors, I hope you realize how important you were in my life.
December 19,2011
Dan S.I used and abused drugs for the 2nd half of my life. I was functional, relatively successful, but I know I would have achieved much more without the use of drugs. I felt all was under control until one day someone introduced me to speed. I thought I could handle anything because I did coke, ecstasy and other drugs for so long, I thought nothing of it.
Man was I dead wrong. That stuff took getting high to a new level and one I could not handle. After realizing my life was in shambles, I tried to quit a few times on my own but to no avail. My family dragged me out of it, I moved in with my brother across the country and a year later I was back in the same town thinking I was good to go. No rehab involved this time. I lasted for several months (2 years total break) and I finally got into it again in full gear. I think I jumped back in worse off then I was before. My first run was 5 years and my second run was 7 years and I thought, there is no way in hell I'm ever gonna get out of this hell alive or without going to jail, death or serious injury to myself at the least. I knew one or more of the above was inevitable.
Thank God for my loving family who said to me again...we know you are using so please would you go to rehab? We researched our butts off and found this place in Napa called Duffy's and we think you'd do well there and someone in a friend’s family went there and loved it. I said yes, reluctantly, but I knew at the age of 39 I did not want to be on drugs on my 40th birthday. Somehow, I knew it was time and I had to do something. This was a blessing from above.
So I arrived and slept for a few days since that was something I never did and I felt at home right away. The people were great under the circumstances. The staff was wonderful and they actually seemed like they cared and they did. The schedule was absolutely great because it kept you busy and honest. The facility is clean and the food was good. I think it was too good because it showed. I always thought I would feel imprisoned there but I felt like I was in camp when I was a kid, really I did. I learned a lot, I loved the class activities and time flew by, it was a great experience.
I don’t know what it was about being in Duffy’s that made me want to stop being a drug addict. I just knew I had a second or third chance at life and this was it. I still to this day don’t know what it was that made me know I had to quit. I’m sure I had something to do with it but I really learned a lot there and highly recommend it to anyone who is in need of recovery. No, I’m not being paid to write this but you may think so. I’m just happy to be alive and well and want to share.
I heard 1 out of 10 people recover from speed and I am one of them. I have a very addictive personality and I never ever thought I could stop my abuse and I did. Miracle, luck, whatever, it worked and Duffy's showed me the strength. I wish I could show people in their addiction a glimpse of my new, clear headed and very happy life and that there is hope. Sleep is my best friend these days among other things and what I love most is I spend a lot of time with my family...the people I always tried to avoid when I was getting high and now I never want to be without them.
December 13,2011
LeoMy Brokenness has been shadowing me recently. Reminding me of where I came from. I believe she will always be watching over me – encouraging me to keep strong and whole.
26 years ago I was on a year-long path of learning how to walk again after a night of drunkenness which led me down Silverado Trail imploding amongst two hundred year old Oak trees and a thirteen foot ravine. Pieces of my car and...my body are still imbedded in those majestic Oaks. My outlook on my life was “I couldn’t live right and I couldn’t die right”. A sad perspective when one considers that I was given a loving family, opportunity galore and a community that embraced me with gentle arms. All of which I bafflingly turned away from as if they were the plague.
25 years ago I was crumbled on the linoleum of the kitchen in my migrant worker’s cottage. I was broken beyond the physical. I had a moment where I realized that I was responsible for what I had become. There wasn’t anyone else to blame.
In the days between 1985 and 1986, while healing from the wreck that miraculously didn’t kill me, I was visited daily by a young man named Lambert. He would come on those slow and painful walks with me and quietly talk. He shared a life that started where I found myself to a life of peace, freedom and joy.While on that floor in my kitchen, I felt I had no one to turn to. I had hurt too many people; damaged too many relationships; burned too many bridges. There was one person though that kept coming in my thoughts – Lambert. I called to him for help. He came that night and held my hand and told me there was a way of life to live that would remove my despair. He shared again the path life had taken him and disclosed in depth how he came from the shambles of his youth. He gave me the lifeline of hope. That night, after many cups of coffee and a moment to wash up, I found myself among a group of people sharing a life that was mine but instead of crumbling into the earth, they were walking with their heads held high and a spark of life in their eyes.
That was October 25, 1986.
Until that night, I didn’t know it but I was afflicted with a disease that wanted to take me down fast a furiously – the disease of alcoholism.
Today and for the past 25 years, my life is full of joyous impossibilities had I not been given that moment of Grace. The nightmare of yesterday will not be forgotten but it does not define me today.
Thank you To Eloise, my sponsor who told me to accept the first callback for an interview for employment! Ended up being the best latrine scrubber for Duffy's ever - ha... meals, meetings and sobriety part of my job description!!!!
October 25,2011
With gratitude, Betsy
sober member of AA since October 25, 1986- My last alcoholic drink was a "hummer" in October 1984, or as Duffy used to
call it, "shitty bourbon and water". In those days, Duffy tapered us off on
"hummers".
I still hear Duffy's voice in the back of my mind. "If they make a pill to
allow me to take one drink, I won't take the pill...who wants one drink?"
October 19,2011
Nick - Greetings! I received treatment at Duffys over 23 years ago. I am proud to say I am eighteen years clean. The most significant memory of my stay were the staff and the discipline. The family structure was critical in my growth process.
It is imperative that you as learn to understand your daily struggle with your addiction as it is the addict mind.
With this disease there is alot of shame and destructive behaviors. Shame will take you places you never intended on going and staying longer than you anticipated staying..
October 1,2011
D. Robinson - Hello, I am so grateful to get the Hummer. Thank you all for your hard
work. Duffy's was so special in my life. It opened doors for me to have a new
way of living. I remember the evening I arrived at Duffy's. I was allowed to
go straight from maximum security at Santa Rita jail to Duffy's. I arrived in
my jail suite around July 12, 1996 at 8pm. My intake was with a counselor
named Rich. I still remember a sign out front that I think said "absolutely
insist on enjoying life" . I never thought it could be possible. I remember
my first morning session, the discussion was about drugs and I just starting
crying and another patient(Heather) put her hand on my arm and said you are
in the right place. And she was right. I want to thank the staff for
providing my beginning set of tools for daily living. Today I look forward
to waking up and living life. Today I have not had a drink, used any drugs
or hurt anyone, that is a good day of living. I have been sober now for over
15 years.
August 1,2011
John F - San Francisco - I left Duffy's on June 13th, 2011 and I am still on track. This is the most happiest I have been in years. The Duffy's Staff and my fellow classmates will always have a special place in my heart. I can't explain it but there is something "MAGIC" about Duffy's. I had one of the best experiences of my life at Duffy's. Who would think this would happen at rehab.
July 12,2011
WOW..... Dusty, Sacramento - Just checking in again, another year later, with more thanks for the wonderful staff of Duffy's. This is my second time to sign the guestbook (I hope that's alright). I had four years sober on May 15th, 2011.... Four years since I walked through the doors at Duffy's and my life changed forever. Anyway, if you're still thinking about Duffy's and you haven't gone yet.... GO. If you're afraid, don't be. It's the most welcoming place I have ever been. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I will be 30 in September; my family didn't expect me to see 26. I am eternally filled with love and gratitude for the amazing staff of Duffy's and the friends that I made there, wherever they may be. What a special group of people.... What an amazing place to start a new chapter in your life. This is one thing that you really don't need to think about -- just go and see if you want a new life. Give yourself a few weeks to make that decision with a clear head and an open heart. You will not be sorry. xoxo
June 22,2011
Love, again, from Texas. Julia T. - Hello from Humboldt! I entered Duffy's on Sept. 22 2010, and the first thing I noticed was how happy everyone was. I thought to myself, "How can this be?" I was sick and lost, and a room full of cheerful people was not what I expected. The staff was wonderful, kind, and understanding as they helped me to settle in. I saw the doctor that day, and through his administration of Suboxone, was made immediately comfortable in my opioid withdrawals. That very afternoon I had an appetite and was laughing. My biggest fear was conquered. That allowed me to get to work on my real problem. Myself! And I'm still working hard. Almost five months sober, and going! The future looks bright for the first time in many years. Many thanks to all at Duffy's.
February 9,2011
Sincerely, Brian J. - I liked Duffy's so much, I got to be a repeat. Last time was in 1992, when Duff said he did in fact have a bed for me. He didn't look down on me, condemn me, nor think less of me as a man, just an alcoholic who needed help. In 1992, his statement of looking at one’s self in the mirror and finally admitting that we had lost the ability to control our drinking really hit home. I listened and took to heart all that Duff had to say, and the staff had to offer. He was a hell of man, and helped thousands of us on the road to recovery, which included living life again as productive and independent members of society. Duff could get us sober while we were there, but he also pushed AA, which continues to be a big part of my life. I often think of Duffy's, having thought they might not have been around after his passing. Good to see they are still helping others in need, along with those of us who have positive memories of our experience there. Now that I know they are still open, I may plan on a golf tournament, as well as a sober weekend. Thank you Duff for guiding me in my sobriety and a wonderful life. April will be nineteen years of a great life.
January 30,2011
Rich - I'm Marie--alumni 1985. My sister and her husband took me, totally against my will (generally I would have put up a fight, or at least run away)--but poor me, I was in a blackout! They had the courage to drive several hours, in the middle of night, with the risk I’d wake up--and then what? Sobriety was too scary--how could I have given up the drugs and alcohol that i basically lived for. I'd already attended over 100 12 step meetings. I could identify plenty. What they didn't know about me was that I was unique! And in maintaining my " independence", my well-kept appearances, I rationalized that I was entitled to some privacy (isolation really). I could quit alcohol anytime i wanted-"-well maybe not today"--or "what difference does it make, one more day drinking/using?" I woke up at Duffy's--mad as all get out! I cried, I swore, I threatened. Certainly they'd bounce me, then I'd be free. And beneath my "better than" facade, I was very, very lonely and knew i was doomed. How could i possible stay quiet? The folks kept vigil, kept me safe--let me rave on, but wouldn't give up on me. They cared about me, until I could care about myself. They accepted me, and I really felt I belonged. I cursed, I laughed, ate the most amazingly delicious food, I swam every day. I was surrounded by recovering folks from all walks of life--rich or penniless, youngsters like me, or old-timers who hit a rough patch. Old Duff was as endearing as he was forceful--he was fiery with no-nonsense approach to sobriety. At the same time, we, all of us, residents and staff alike, were enamored by Duffy. He shared with us lifesaving tools of recovery, quenched our thirst with kindred spirit, with compassion and humor. I had no idea or hope that lasting sobriety was possible, let alone, really wonderful. If you've only one shot left, let it be Duffy's. I have only the highest regard for all the staff, and cannot imagine a better setting than Duffy's of Myrtledale.
January 20,2011
Mark Brandonson - I was eating my lunch at work and reading some of the comments on the Duffy’s guestbook and read Linda D, from Napa. I almost fell off my chair. I was working at Duffy’s when you came in. You are so right when you say "If I can do it, you can do it". You are truly a miracle. 19 years. WOW. I remember you well. It made my day hearing that you’re still sober. I had 27 years on April 1. I miss Gene. He was a great man. It’s amazing how far we come by taking only 12 steps. Thanks for making my day
January 18,2011
Mike M. - Well over 20 years ago, Duffy, his sons and staff allowed me the opportunity to a new way of life. Since then I have celebrated not only two decades of continuous abstinence, but also have watched my sister get 14 years. My defunct family is changing our history. I am now married to a recovering addict with 18 years clean and have been blessed to be married to her for over ten years. I have two children 7 and 4. I have God in my life that this addict actually lets guide me.....every now and then. I could go on and on. Still go to meetings, I am involved in running a H & I meeting. Own my own business and home.....I can be alone....and be OK. Duffy was truly, looking back....an angel of mine (and others). I will never forget.
January 18,2011
Mark H. - Hello all, I celebrated the start of 2011 sober and happy for the first time in who knows how long. I am enjoying life again and I thank the entire Duffy's staff for everything they did for me. And I have to admit, I appreciate my dishwasher more than ever. Today is 125 days and I am just taking it one day at a time.
January 5,2011
Patrick A, Sacramento - I received "my Hummer" with a new look today. I have much to say about Duffy’s. In March of 1971 I "visited" for the first time and twice since that year. Gene D new how to handle a "big shot" like me. He just ignored me for three days. We became great friends. He dined in our home in Lafayette before a speaking commitment in Walnut Creek and once we met for lunch in Copenhagen. Went to the big Round Up in Palm Springs together but all that was not enough. After six years I was cured, moved my family to New Jersey and was nipping for 7 years and still going to meetings. April 10th 1984, I turned my life and my will over to the care of God and gave up and have been truly blessed with a wonderful life ending up in Naples, FL. I go to many meetings here and in Denmark (we are there 4 months in the summer), where there once were few and now many meetings. My initial introduction to AA and Gene's ass kicking way of getting me going I shall never forget. The "old timers" that took me under their wings was what brought me back to a wonderful sober life. Last year we visited my first sponsor's wife in Gilroy (I had not seen her in 30 years). Bill Mac passed on some years ago and we just had lunch with her and her new husband while visiting Lafayette over Thanksgiving week. I am living with my ex-wife now for over 12 years (the mother of my sons and my high school sweetheart). She has been a steady member of "the other party" since 1971. We are so lucky, so very lucky. Thanks to AA and all you wonderful people that came in to our lives. God Bless the work you do at Duffy’s. I'm going to stop and say hello when visiting our oldest son in Lafayette one day. Thank you for faithfully sending me the "Hummer". God bless you and have a very Merry Christmas with the best wishes for the New Year where Duffy’s will bring the message to so many new and lucky folks.
December 20,2010
Knud G. - Happy Holidays everyone, I have never been a patient of Duffy's but I have several friends that have gone to Duffy's and are still sober after 20 year's...Thank you for being there for the Alcoholics that are ready for a better way of life. If I put one hand in AA and my other hand in my Higher Power, I don't have a hand to pick up a drink.
December 20,2010
Steve from Albuquerque, New Mexico - Thank you Duffy's for being the first 28 days of the rest of my life in August 2000. I have spent the last 10 years sober, and have achieved so much as a mother that I could not have achieved on the destructive path I was on. The caring, the counseling, the environment....the wonderful staff....all contributed to the life I began, and the horrid one I left behind. Blessings to you and all in recovery. One day at a time. You saved my life.
November 25,2010
Susan B., Southern California - I am still amazed at the quality of care that I received at this facility. I realize that I can only take one day at a time and today I am happy and sober because I am actually using the tools that I learned at Duffy's. I will keep you all in my prayers.
November 18,2010
Tonya W. - It has been over six years since I spent time at Duffy's and I am still sober. Cannot say enough about the staff and the program there. You are all miraculous.
November 8,2010
Thanks so much, Diane G - I brought my addicted wife to Duffy's to help her, and never realized it would change my life forever. I was a successful contractor in Silicon Valley and felt that these "addicts" were just weak individuals who couldn't cope, and that God was just a legend made up for "such people”. I could relate to Duffy as he was a construction person also, so I listened to his stories on Sunday's when I came to visit the 3 times my wife was there. One weekend I was extremely troubled because the city inspector had refused to allow occupancy (Friday afternoon) of a facility I had just completed. I would be responsible for the lost productivity and wages until the facility could open. Duffy was talking and said that if you got down on your knees and asked God you may be surprised at the coincidence of the results. I went home and asked the Lord to help me, and on Monday morning a new city inspector showed up and approved the facility for occupancy. Who would ever expect that a change in inspectors could take place over a weekend as we know the city doesn't work on weekends. This became the start of a new beginning for me, and although my wife passed away due to her addiction it has led me to the Lord. I regularly hold meetings in my home and minister to those in need, and am studying how to be a better conduit for HIS healing abilities (stripes). You may not be aware of who is listening and the impact at your meetings, but we all are hurting and your input is felt beyond what you can see. Later on I had to bring my secretary there for help and she is now my wife and soul companion and she is clean and sober for 15 years. Keep up the good work.
November 6,2010
An old friend and believer, Bob - My sobriety date is July 21, 2008. On that date I drove myself from the Sierra Foothills out to Duffy's because I was out of answers. My father had attended meetings there in the late 70's and helped me find the facility. I checked in and got involved. I needed a solution to my alcoholism and I found it at Duffy's. I got plugged in immediately and hit the ground running. I haven't stopped since. Today, I am very active in the recovery community in Southern California, I am helping others to get sober, I am back in school full-time and starting my own business. This wouldn't be possible without the treatment and kindness that I received at your facility. Thank you for my life!!!
November 5,2010
JT - I knew I needed help but didn't know where to turn. I didn’t realize what I needed was to learn I was lost with nowhere to go. I was a mess and finally hit my all-time low. I accepted death as my only way out. I was to die young, in that I had no doubt I knew giving up wasn’t a smart move. Being worthy of love was something I knew I could prove. With this lesson I’ve learned so many important things about life’s gifts and all the blessings it brings. Thank you for your gift that keeps on giving. I will take your lessons and be thankful for living.
September 6,2010
Jenna B. - Hi there, I just wanted to send a big hello and thanks again to everyone at Duffy's. I am about to turn 29, and much in part to the help I received during my stay at Duffy's. I celebrated three years of sobriety on May 15th, 2010. My life is unimaginably different than it was a little over three years ago. I have accomplished a great deal, both personally and professionally, but the most important thing --at least I believe-- is being able to wake up every morning... and not wish that I hadn't. It's amazing to actually look forward to my life, where every day used to be such a struggle. My family and I send our love and well wishes to the staff and workers. And, to everyone who was a resident in May/June of 2007, I hope you're still out there... and I hope that you have found peace and happiness. I miss you all and think of you often. If you're considering a stay at Duffy's, just go for it. Whatever happens, however scary it may seem, I promise that you will be better for the time that you spend there. Duffy's, without a doubt, saved my life.
August 26,2010
Love from Texas, Julia T. - Love reading the comments. Fills me with such nostalgia. I was a guest at Duffy's in 1986 and have not found it necessary to take a drink since that day. And, for this alcoholic, that is a miracle! I was also blessed with the chance to then give back what was so freely given to me by working at Duffy's in the late 80's and early 90's. I will never be able to truly communicate my gratitude, so I will continue to help those that still suffer and keep Sr. in my heart always.
July 28,2010
Yours in Sobriety, Irene T. -- San Carlos, CA - 5 years ago today, July 26th, 2005, I entered Duffy's after doing detox in Sacramento. Thanks to the good foundation I got here, I am still sober! I hope the first Monday's activities are checking out what meetings you will go to after you leave Duffy's. I am still going to the ones I wrote down 5 years ago. Thanks for being there for folks like me who could not stop drinking.
July 26,2010
Kim M. from Sacramento - Hi everyone, I enjoyed the time I spent with the staff. I have been clean and sober since June 11, 1989. My journey has taken me to having a married life, graduate school and a job I enjoyed doing. Thank you for everything.
July 6,2010
A friend, Oregon - I came into Duffy's a broken man, not sure if I wanted to live or die. After 28 days, with a sponsor in hand, my life changed. I love my life & what it holds for me now. My future is bright, but only if I stay connected - meetings, service, & my higher power. Thanks to all at Duffy's, I owe you my life.
June 28,2010
Your friend, Ross U. - Well over 20 years ago, Duffy, his sons and staff allowed me the opportunity to a new way of life. Since then I have celebrated not only two decades of continuous abstinence, but also have watched my sister get 14 years. My defunct family is changing our history. I am now married to a recovering addict with 18 years clean and have been blessed to be married to her for over ten years. I have two children 7 and 4. I have God in my life that this addict actually lets guide me.....every now and then. I could go on and on. Still go to meetings, I am involved in running a H & I meeting. Own my own business and home.....I can be alone....and be OK. Duffy was truly, looking back....an angel of mine (and others). I will never forget. 10-1-1989. May it be the last.
June 4,2010
Mark H. Brentwood, CA - I was eating my lunch at work and reading some of the comments on the Duffy’s guestbook and read Linda D, from Napa. I almost fell off my chair. I was working at Duffy’s when you came in. You are so right when you say "If I can do it, you can do it". You are truly a miracle. 19 years. WOW. I remember you well. It made my day hearing that you’re still sober. I had 27 years on April 1. I miss Gene. He was a great man. It’s amazing how far we come by taking only 12 steps. Thanks for making my day.
May 19,2010
Mike M. - I'm Marie--alumni 1985. My sister and her husband took me, totally against my will (generally I would have put up a fight, or at least run away)--but poor me, I was in a blackout! They had the courage to drive several hours, in the middle of night, with the risk I’d wake up--and then what? Sobriety was too scary--how could I have given up the drugs and alcohol that i basically lived for. I'd already attended over 100 12 step meetings. I could identify plenty. What they didn't know about me was that I was unique! And in maintaining my " independence", my well-kept appearances, I rationalized that I was entitled to some privacy (isolation really). I could quit alcohol anytime i wanted-"-well maybe not today"--or "what difference does it make, one more day drinking/using?" I woke up at Duffy's--mad as all get out! I cried, I swore, I threatened. Certainly they'd bounce me, then I'd be free. And beneath my "better than" facade, I was very, very lonely and knew i was doomed. How could i possible stay quiet? The folks kept vigil, kept me safe--let me rave on, but wouldn't give up on me. They cared about me, until I could care about myself. They accepted me, and I really felt I belonged. I cursed, I laughed, ate the most amazingly delicious food, I swam every day. I was surrounded by recovering folks from all walks of life--rich or penniless, youngsters like me, or old-timers who hit a rough patch. Old Duff was as endearing as he was forceful--he was fiery with no-nonsense approach to sobriety. At the same time, we, all of us, residents and staff alike, were enamored by Duffy. He shared with us lifesaving tools of recovery, quenched our thirst with kindred spirit, with compassion and humor. I had no idea or hope that lasting sobriety was possible, let alone, really wonderful. If you've only one shot left, let it be Duffy's. I have only the highest regard for all the staff, and cannot imagine a better setting than Duffy's of Myrtledale.
April 22,2010
Thank you, Marie B. - Oh,Wow! Where to begin? The year was 1990. My life was a mess, crashing around me. I was slandered by my employer, to the point I needed to do the work of 3 people for anyone to work with me. My marriage was in such disarrays, on a return from a family outing at my in laws, I remember seeing a 10 wheeler tractor trailer coming at me and wanting to swerve in front of it, to stop the lecturing I was getting from my wife, about my behavior. Lucky my children were in the car! I swear I would have done it! My life was rock bottom and I was a threat to the ones I love most, my family! My oldest son in his teens slept with a baseball bat because he feared me. I couldn't see any of it! I really didn't think I was that bad off! My Medical Doctor had me on a prescription of Halcion for my bad back. A sleeping aid perfectly safe, as long as you are under a doctor’s care, and under no circumstances use longer than 2 weeks. I was on my 3rd "year" of using it! Since then, it has been shown to cause violent behavior in people, up to and including, killing relatives. I was also drinking and had a cocaine addiction. In other words I was pretty messed up! The week before I entered Duffy's, my family ran from my home out of fear of me. I was looking for my shotgun because I fantasized I was being followed home by a cocaine dealer, and I needed to protect my family. That's when they had enough! I needed help! I needed help bad! Gene Duffy and his staff skillfully guided me through my rehab, and, I look back on those times as a real blessing! The skills you learn not only prepare you for your future, but, also prepare you for whatever life has in store for you in the next chapter of you life! My marriage didn't work out. I got divorced, but my ex and I talk daily. We still got to raise 3 wonderful sons and have a very good admirable relationship. Sometimes things are just meant to be! Life is good, what can I say but, Thank you Gene Duffy for being there in my time of need!
April 19,2010
Garry C. Sacramento, Ca. - Hi, my name is Linda. In 1992 it was the biggest day of my life. Why? that was the day I entered Mr Duffy's house, I had a choice to live or die. I chose to live. The hardest thing in my whole life to do was to come clean from drugs and alcohol. Mr Duffy and staff helped me and spent alot of time with me. I was there when Mr Duffy passed away, it broke my heart,to this day Mr Duffy is still my hero. He saved my life. On July 2010, I will have 19 yrs clean and sober may God Bless everyone that goes through Duffy's house.I would love to come and share my story again,if I can do it you can do it.
April 10,2010
Linda D, Napa - It was Good Friday of 2007 when I checked into Duffy's, ready to attempt this thing called sobriety. I was drinking and using up until 15 minutes before my sister was due to pick me up to take me there. After 28 days of counseling, fellowship, rest, and family-style food, I began my journey of recovery at home in the Bay Area. Following the suggestions I heard at Duffy's, I got a sponsor within one week after going to meetings daily. It has been challenging at times, but I am proud and grateful to say that I have not found it necessary to pick up a drink or drug since the day I walked into the doors of Duffy's. Thanks so very much for the rock-solid foundation you have me. I have a full, healthy life today and will celebrate 3 years on 4-7-10.
April 3,2010
Karen E., South San Francisco CA - I was a resident at Duffy's back in the summer of 2005 and I have to say it was not what I expected. Feeling more like a vacation than a recovery facility and the staff feeling more like friends went a long way for me in linking recovery to a positive experience. Having such a close-knit group as well as the expertise and experience of the staff got me on my way. Thank you guys a ton! 4 years and 2 months strong
February 28,2010
Jeff G., Oregon - I got sober at Duffy's on July 14th 1994. I have been back for several sobriety weekends. I will always have a spot in my heart for all the staff who helped me. thank you very much. My life is good now and it started at Duffy's
September 14,2009
Mike L., Santa Cruz - Considering going to Duffy’s? By far best value anywhere. Stay 28 days, you can do it. The office will still be there. After a week at Duffy’s I thought I didn’t need help and I checked out. I sure wish I had gone 28 or for the weekends (excellent value) instead of my Huge Relapse. I have booked time to start over at Duffy’s after I am released from detention. See you there!
July 2,2009
John, Bay area - I entered this program on November 18, 2005 not knowing what to expect. I went in scared and nervous, but I learned quickly that I was among friends. What I learned at Duffy's has guided me through my life and will continue to guide me for a long time to come. I would just like to say thanks to all the people that work here and the people that support this wonderful place.
June 27,2009
Scot J. - My last (of 3) trips to Duf's was in 1985. Duf used to BARK, "If you don't remember yer sobriety date, then you don't HAVE a damn sobriety date!" Well, 9-12-85, Gene! Duf used to also say (for those of us that knew him well) in his usual, kind, soft manner (HAW HAW) that "if you don't like feelin' guilty, that stop doin' whats makin' ya feel guilty!" Duf enjoyed getting right into your face with the ugly truth. For hard time five & dimers like me, it was the only thing that worked. So, for those who thought him too gruff, and too harsh, it was his way of getting the message to people like himself-the hardheaded bunch who probably would not have attained sobriety any other way. I miss Gene. And I'm too old to whup Gene Jr. one the golf course-(any more!)! But, THANKS TO DUF, I have 23 years! He would never claim responsibility for anyone’s sobriety, but I will tell you that he was my GUIDE on the path. As times change, so do the techniques. Duf offered me the chance, and made it clear that it might be my last. Thanks again, Gene. I took the path, and remain there today, thanks to Duffy’s Myrtledale, and my Higher Power!
June 12,2009
Fredy, No. Cal. - I will swear my left one to this place, if you’re having a problem and can’t do it on your own, you found the right place. I just got home today and miss the wonderful staff, beautiful grounds and perfect food. I was beat and tired of taking pills and my addiction beat me to a pulp. These people know the best way to help you when you are at your worse. Not only that they have classes all day that teach you great tools and help you fight your addiction and find sobriety, you don’t have to do this alone. I ran myself dry and was in a bad spot of self-loathing, disgust and couldn’t stop the routine. It was tough and I thought the week was gonna drag but I ended up staying an extra day and miss it already. Can’t wait to be back for meetings, thanx Dan, Susan, Deb, Larry and Pat for helping me get a 2nd chance, I’ll reach someone else and give back to the program.
June 12,2009
Forever grateful, Brian D. Ca. - I went into treatment at Cache Creek Lodge, Hummingbird Hollow back in 1989, and while I was there, I remember the director at that time, Stu Driver talking about Gene Duffy and his treatment center called Duffy’s, he spoke very fondly of both. I wish I could say that I stayed sober since then, but I had not been thoroughly convinced, so I had to go and do some more research. On May 15, 2006 I entered Duffy’s, I stayed for 28 days by the grace of God and the excellent staff and I have remained sober since then. I would like to say that if you want to change your life, Duffy’s will change your life for the better. I met so many wonderful people there and one of my very best friends there. The staff at Duffy’s really care. I wish I could have met Duf, but his legacy lives on through his treatment center and his videos. Thank you for giving me a new lease on life! I just celebrated my 3yr birthday.
June 3,2009
Staying sober in No. Cal - I am the grandson of Betty Albright, a friend of Gene's, and also a friend of Bill W. for 44 years! She passed in '91. After my training as a counselor, in 1980 I returned to the Bay Area and found, among the 12-Step community, it seemed almost everyone knew my grandmother. She was a guest at Duffy's on a few occasions, and had referred many clients. --- I am not in recovery, but I am a counselor, specializing in alcohol-crisis intervention among difficult populations. After thirty-years in my field, I believe that Duffy's is among the very best programs in the country. It provides a safe, supportive, and serene environment for those who need detox or who are beginning their recovery. Duffy's 28-day program is restorative, while providing steps and strategies for more comfortably maintaining sobriety. And it remains the best place to be for relapse prevention or intervention.
May 20,2009
Brian Kuester, EMT, Cert. Substance Abuse Counselor-III - As a grateful member of Alanon for a number of years, I just want you to know how much I love just my daily walks by your facility when I vacation in Calistoga every spring. Your sign "together they shared their experience, strength and hope". . .daily centers me and brings me serenity. I think of the courage of the people behind your beautiful white fence and find gratitude. So, thanks for that sign and your work.
May 15,2009
Susie F. - Quick update. Still Sober from my time at Duffy's. Especially thankful for the persons (family) there at Duf's that saved my life. Thanks Staff. I love all of you.
May 12,2009
Jerry - I have been clean and sober since Jan 1, 1983. Going to Duffy’s for the first 2 years of my sobriety to go for the sobriety weekend was a great part of my sobriety. The peace and quiet was all I needed. The place taught me that I didn't have to stay in my circumstances to figure out any problems. To just get away from them and come here was such a release. And being able to talk to others, attend the meetings and of course go into town and shop was very therapeutic for me. I was able to come back home with a much clearer mind, some answers and also some choices. This is a great way to get away from it all. And the people? What can I say? They are the greatest. And old man Duffy? Yes, I sat and listened to him many times. But as I can only say, this has been my experience. I just have to say don't take my word for it, but check it out for yourself. And don't forget where you go, God will be there also.
May 4,2009
Happy Sobriety-Marilyn - Duffys saved my life. Coming up on 4 years clean and sober. Incredible program.
April 7,2009
Eddie F - If you are in recovery, this is the place for a weekend stay. You continue to learn, serve and have fellowship. Share your sobriety with others, meet new friends from other areas and you will never be alone. The surroundings are great as are staff and all the people there. Whether you have short or long term sobriety, refreshen it at Duffy's. It's getting through the worst of time and the best of time in sobriety by the grace of God and getting out of self. 18 years and 6 days today. It's a good life.
April 7,2009
Sandra, West Sacramento - In the mid 80's, it was my pleasure & privelege to attend a meeting where Gene was the Speaker in Dekalb, IL. I learned Duf got sober in Dekalb and helped build many of the Northern Illinois University buildings. Duf had shared that during a detox period, he had been a patient at the Elgin Mental Hospital. When the building was torn down in the early 90's, I obtained a brick from that structure and sent it to Duf. He sent me a warm Thank You. I enjoy receiving the "Hummer", great reading, keeps Duf and his experiences close. Thanks for allowing me to share.
April 6,2009
Respectfully, With Love in Service - Jerry P - I have spent one week at Duf's, and a weekend following 30 clean days. The week was great, and the return weekend was even better. I shall return to conquer the steps when I hit a hard spot, and feel a great deal of comfort and support at Duffy's. Most of all, I can find my true self at this spot. The staff, counselors, and chefs are extraordinary, and I think of the place each day
January 15,2009
Still alive after 67 days, Randy, Gualala, CA - Heard about Duffy and had a chance to hear his experience, strength and hope thanks to this wonderful man "Galen." I said hi, and I said someday I would love for you to meet my father and he said I did and laughed. As tears were running down, I say this today because those two men had given me hope and faith about loving one another in open arms and no matter what were never alone. Because of this I have 12 years clean and dreams come true, thanks Duffy!
- As I entered Duffy's as sick and tired of being sick and tired as anyone could be. I had 14 years sobriety and relapsed for 11 months. Now as I am about to celebrate my 2nd year on Jan 5 I thank God everyday that I went to Duffy's. I was one more drink away from death and entered a quiet, shy, emotional cripple and left vibrant, full of life and hopes for the future. I have been back for Sobriety week-ends many times and leave rejoiced and refreshed. I got my one year chip at Duffy's along with two of my friends (fellow guest) and it was like getting an Oscar. I am saddened that this year I will stand alone to get my two year chip. We are all just one drink away from insanity or death. My friend is back at Duffy's which is a Godsend and he will recover again and he will have hope and dreams again. How many chances do we get? Only God knows and it is not my desire to test him. I am blessed to have each day begin anew with each hour of sobriety things are coming together. Thank you Connie, Patrick, lori and Pat E for your continuing friendship
December 31,2008
Elaine, San Mateo CA - Hello all I thank God for Duffy's and the staff for the care and concern the have for all of us with our serious problems. I have ben clean for over seventeen years and still going strong. i pray for all those who still suffer from addiction that they find the light. Seventeen years of sobriety feels great. Thanks to the staff at Duffy's and Gene Sr. for starting the program that has helped so many lead a clean and sobar life free from the poison of demon rum. Duffy's will always be a part of my life of sobriety. God bless Duffy's and the staff.
December 15,2008
Ed A. San Bruno, CA - Seventeen years of sobriety feels great. Thanks to the staff at Duffy's and Gene Sr. for starting the program that has helped so many lead a clean and sobar life free from the poison of demon rum. Duffy's will always be a part of my life of On October 18, 2003 I floated into Duffy's with out the ability to differentiate the true from the false, strung out, & emotionally bankrupt. I was Detoxed and introduced to a better way. Duffy's was my 3rd treatments center and the most practical. It was made real clear that it wasn't the end yet the beginning of a new way of life. By simply putting one foot in front of the other I have been put in touch with a power greater than myself that has solved my problem. Thank You!
November 27,2008
Lance B. (Petaluma, CA-->Reno, NV) - I checked into Duffy's on the 7th of August 2008. After a 35 day stay, and thanks to the WONDERFUL staff along with A.A. & N.A., I have been clean & sober since. If you are reading this and thinking about checking into Duffy's of think you may have a problem with drugs or alcohol, Duffy's is the place to go. They know what they are doing and treat every guest with care and respect. I am very greatful to Duffy's for giving me the tools to live life day by day...Clean & Sober.
- I checked out of Duffy's today, November 6th, 2008 as a completely different person than I was 28 days ago. I can't thank them enough for everything they did for me. I highly recommend this facility to anybody in need of treatment. Thanks Duffy's, for helping me get my life back!
- I came to Duffy's in late June 1993 seeking hope for a better life. Clean and sober for 10 years. Moved out of the sonoma area to Sacramento. Some of lifes challenge I starting slipping away, finding myself back where I was once before. In the back of my mind I didn't want to go there. remembering the 28 days at Duffy's an how my life change so much than. But I knew this time I would have to do something so different in order stay clean and sober, I would need to start helping other. Just like Bill W. did. I am currently going to college to become an AOD Counselor (CADC I ) Since I have started school once again my life started to change. I am looking forward to be able to help other with addition as well as my own.
November 6,2008
Barbara D. - I was sent to Duffy's by the court system 15 years ago and have not had a drink since! I had no intention of staying clean and sober when I went in, but through the program I found a way. I have had one, one day, slip with marijuana in that time which showed me very clearly what I do not want. Duffy's worked miracles in my life and just looking at this website brings it all back. it is one place on earth I WILL NEVER FORGET. Thank you all for your work.
October 1,2008
Dottie R. Ferndale, CA - Didn't want to go... But after spending my month their I really got a chance to see myself. Thanks to everybody at Duffy's.
August 10,2008
Greg P. - Heard Duffy speak at West Bay Alano Club in Daly City, circa 1985, he was the best. As we were coming down the stairs we were laughing at how Irish folk probably make up most of AA. He reminds me of something George Bernard Shaw said: When you tell people the truth, you better make 'em laugh or they'll want to kill you. Yes indeed, that would be Mr. Duffy. Duffy Jr. you spoke awhile later and I'll never forget how you shared the story of being newly sober and was sent to the store by your wife to buy a cake mix and frosting for a birthday cake. How clearly you expressed your panic of all the choices you had to make! You had us laughing till tears ran. I think of your story when I become overwhelmed when faced with choices and I'm reminded not to take myself so seriously. You taught me that life is too important to take seriously. You're a righteous dude.
June 6,2008
Blessed be, Melissa R. Everett, WA - I got to read a "Hummer" newsletter today. I love it and came here to subscribe to it. This whole organization just makes my heart smile! Thank you to absolutely everyone for what you do! God Bless you always.
- IT has been sober living , starting April 29th 1981 , Thanks to Duffy's for the start.
April 14,2008
Bob F. San Francisco CA - March 2008 My experience at Duffy's was amazing. After the initial detox, it was the happiest I've been in a long time. I loved learning about myself, hearing the wisdom from the staff, and meeting all the amazing people who were in my group. Duffy's helped me reconnect with my Higher Power and for that I will always be grateful. I miss being there! Watching the sunset off the front porch, walking around the pond first thing in the morning, sitting in the grotto and just being..... even drying pots and pans! I hope to see you guys very soon...but as a Sobiety Weekender, I wont be checking in! I love you all,
March 12,2008
Elise E. - On February 1, 2007 I was brought in without one idea of the new life your facility was going to provide me the tools to live by. After 20 plus years of alcoholic denial, i was the one who was not going to make it much longer in life. Now one year later i can only say thanks to the entire group: Shannon, Eloise, Patrick and Connie for showing me the way to a better life. My gratitude list places Duffy's at the top and my time there will always be responsible
March 6,2008
Jerry Mitchel., Reno, Nv. - Went to Duffy's for a Sobriety Weekend when I was 14 years sober and hurting a lot. Gene Duffy took me aside and told me I would be OK, as he and many others had all gone thru this type of thing after being sober awhile. His help, as well as John's (deceased sober) got me thru this most difficult time. On December 15,2007 I celebrated 37 years sober. I relay all this to let those also walking this path that they can do it. I've spent more than one sobriety weekend at Duffy's. Don't let that ego keep you from going there------you just might help someone else. I remember the Hummers-----do you still use them?
March 2,2008
Robert P. Dublin, CA - My first day at Duffy's was December 7,2005. I have been sober ever since. I think of you all everyday. I miss Duffy's very much and cannot wait to visit. Thank you all so so much. It has been the best thing I have ever done for myself.
- My son is now at Duffy's (Jan 2008) and I am not only praying for him but also the entire group. I love your online site and the story of how the center
January 3,2008
CB, Scranton, PA - On September 13 1995 my new life began. I am very grateful to have found such a great place with such great people to end 25 years of misery.
December 1,2007
Thank You So Much, Arne Anderson - Just a word of thanks to the staff and program at Duffy's who lead me in the right direction 8 years ago tomorrow. Missed seeing Gene Sr. live but the videos captured his powerful message that hit me right between the eyes
October 9,2007
Thank you, Tim A., Morada, California - A Beautiful, Spiritual place. I was honored to spend 28 days @ Duffy's in 1995. I went to try to avoid jail. I was still in denial. While being there "for the wrong reasons" I was lucky enough to have received something that was the start of my recovery. I have not had a drink in 12 years. I do consider myself, even today an alcoholic. I do have and continue to seek some tools that are helping me to recover; including to spread "the word". Thank you
September 10,2007
Dave "lava 53" an alcoholic - Gene told me the Third Pertinent Idea just might save my life. To take a series of actions I didn't believe in. To trust in His God, because I didn't have one, and great events would come to pass. I completed Steps 4&5 when I was 8 days Sober. I was told if I didn't, I was a dead man. It was His action, I was only willing. I Thank You, Sir 5,601 days on the Sunny Side of the Street. Beyond My wildest expectations.
September 8,2007
Russ S. - Long Beach, CA - My odyssey started back in '98. I came to Duffy's looking to get out of trouble. They gave me my life back. I just passed my 9th year sober. I have respect and the admiration of my peers and not because I have something other people want but because I can be counted on . THATS THE BEST!! Thanks for all your support thru those dark nights.
August 22,2007
Roger M. Somewhere in Cali - On this day in 1974 - by God's grace and my stay at Duffy's, I have been clean and sober 33 years. Thank you for being there!
August 12,2007
Karen E. Eureka, California - Long ago, in California, I had the privilege of attending a meeting wherein Duffy was the main speaker. One day at a time, it has been it has been sober living for over 28 years. Duffy, you have not been forgotten.
July 13,2007
Jim R., Las Vegas, Nevada - In April 1990, out of options, I called Duffy's for help. 28 days later I had a new way of living, thanks to Duff, the grotto, and 35 drunks with less than 30 days sober. Seventeen years later I still carry Duffy's simple approach to sobriety with me everywhere I go. And I quote Duffy in meetings all the time! Thank God for AA, Gene Duffy, and my Myrtledale home.
June 23,2007
Barry Collins, Grass Valley, CA - I attended Duffys this year for the 28 day program. It has changed my life. You are taught all the tools that you need for a healthy recovery. All you have to do is use them. Life is not great right at this moment, but it is a 100 times better than it was before I came to Duffys. Life is still going to happen on life's terms. I can deal with all the ups and downs without turning to drugs or alcohol. I see a bright future for myself and my relationships with my friends and loved ones. I appreciate the Duffys family and all their staff.
June 5,2007
THANK YOU, LDM - I am happy to read all this success: you deserve it completely. Proud to work with you in Boston, next June. Please, take all the good thoughts streaming from my heart to you.
- It was Wednesday, early morning, just before sunlight on Dec. 1, 1982 I took off to Duffys from Fairfield Ca. I had been up all night drinking "for the last time" knowing I had this chore ahead of me. I was "one eyeing it" driving down the road, when all of a sudden I saw that sun rise over the mountains. I'll never forget it because at that time I began to cry. Not because I was sorry for myself or anything like that. I began to cry cause I knew, right then, God had brought me to this point in my life. It was then that I ask him once again to help me. And it was then for the first time I felt God's love come over me and I knew all was going to be ok. Next thing I knew, I was at Duffy's, in a meeting still drunk but mostly "sick and tired of being sick and tired". I was determined to finish that first meeting but I couldn't. How pitiful I must of looked, sitting there. They had shown me my bed when I first got there and some how I found it. I woke up that evening very hungry and very embarrassed. They made me feel at ease and told me I was not the only one that made a drunk, first appearance. I ate supper, did some paperwork then sat in the living room. That's when I saw him, Duffy Sr., for the first time. What a character, I thought to myself. What could this guy possibly say or do that would help me. He looked like a wino from my old neighborhood in St. Louis and he was loud as hell. I couldn't believe I've put all my eggs in this clown's basket. But you know what? I was thinking like the fool that I was. God allowed Duffy Sr. to go through all he went through, just to help a drunken soul like me. The more I listen to him the more I realized, he was one of the wisest men I ever heard. He had the knowledge only a wino could have. He had the toughness only a street wise person could have. He had the knowhow to help a drunk like me and many others. And he had the heart only a God fearing man could have. He set out to save his own life and in doing so he saved many. He truly, SAVED MY LIFE! And when we pass, all will see him in heaven with all of God's servants. Thank you God and Thank you Mr. Gene Duffy Sr. 25 years sober this December, 2007.
June 2,2007
Chester Green, Vacaville, CA - My father went to Duffy's around 1990. I remember how he seemed proud, though not boastful, as he was able to help another man through his DTs. I was grateful for it had given me my father back after years of serious daily drunkenness. He did not stay sober unfortunately. I found this site after having input my family members name in Google. It would seem the world of recovery is a small one indeed. Though I have not been to Duffy's, I too am an alcoholic. I am in AA and have been for almost 7 years. I was the GSR and currently am attempting DCM like it is stated further down. Service keeps you coming back.
June 1,2007
Bless you all, Patrick Casey, Richmond CA - I thank you and thank you for my children-going to be celebrating 8 years in June-you gave all of us a new beginning.
May 22,2007
Thanks, Dana - My name is Bob Colman. I have been to your establishment five times for treatment back in the 70s. Been sober for 27 yrs and live in Maui Hawaii for the last 19 yrs. Thanks to Gene Duffy. May God rest his soul. I love the Hummer for all these years.
May 2,2007
Love, Bob - I remain forever grateful for my experiences at Duffys. By Gods Grace and this simple program we are looking at 15 years sober. Duff Senior was hard nosed and that is what this snot nose kid needed at the time. The no nonsense approach to the crisis in my life had enabled me to WAKE UP to the Great Reality. Today. Life is a wonderful journey. Free of fear and worry. Free from the bondage of self. Free from the obsession of alcoholism.
May 1,2007
Kevin B. - On April 18, 1991, I checked into Duffys, had to use that day to get out of bed so clean date is April,19 1991. Just celebrated 16 years. Somehow you convinced me on what to do to stay clean after the 28 days. I pretty much followed all your suggestions and not only stayed clean, but have liven a dream life ever since. Gene Sr was alive then and I am honored to have been able to spend time with him
April 25,2007
Thank you, Fred Salmon - Thanks to your staff I have been able to stay clean and sober for over 15 years. I am still going strong and staying clean. Bless you all.
April 20,2007
Ed A. San Bruno, Ca. - The website is awesome and very informative.
- Hey Dirk I still have that Coffee Cup Holder you made for my car in 93 still sober too. If you get to the bay area come see us at the Grumpy Old Men's meeting AKA the end of the bridge group Friday nights in San Lorenzo
April 2,2007
Chris - Dirk, good to know your still sober. i was working there when you made the signs. I heard you spoke at Duffy's a while back. love to see you again. i have 24 years on April 1st. I live in Middletown now. great aa there. love to have you come and speak there.
March 31,2007
Mike M - 14 Years ago, when I made the entrance signs for Gene, I told him that if he ever came in and the signs were chain sawed down, he would know I went back to drinking. It is good to see the signs still standing, as am I, thanks to Dufs. -
March 17,2007
Dirk D. - I just want to say that I hope I will get to visit and do some step work.
January 30,2007
Sincerely Kristen - I would like to know if Gene Duffy helped Suzanne Somers as I see in her book she thanks Duffy.
- I was there twice. Great site and program, Gene was alive and it was 700 week shocked at new cost, but I was there 15 years ago
- Knew I was alcoholic but I fought off AA for many years until I was dragged all the way from my home in London to Duffy's in March 1999. Following a supervised detox, I sat down in the Duffy's dining room for my first AA meeting. I have not had a drink since that day.
I am grateful to the staff and my fellow 'inmates' for starting my recovery with those 28 days of crucial baby steps.
By the way, I was going to visit Duffy's the last time I was in the Bay Area, but that morning turned out to be Sept 11, 2001, and I guess everyone's plans changed that day...
December 22,2006
Bob R. - Thank you for being there for me when I had given up hope. I thank God and your staff for my being clean and sober all these years. I now am happily retired with a home and a new car with many thanks again to Duffys for being there for me and all those who had given up hope. I can still see Gene Sr. on his weekly visits pulling the questions and comments out of the fishing creel that hangs in the dining room. God bless you all.
December 8,2006
Ed A. San Bruno, Ca. - My 26 year old daughter is entering tomorrow . I am a child of an alcoholic and now a mother of one. I will do everything in my power to assist her in her recovery. I want to be one of those who writes after many years that it saved her life. God bless.
November 6,2006
Kathy - Dear Duffys, I was there 1 year ago and I am still sober, thank you for your help.
- Hi My name is Jan and I am an Alcoholic. 25 years ago I began my sobriety at Duffys. I was a bright eyed, snot nose drunk at the tender age of 26. Duffy and Myrtledale saved my life. I have been happily, successfully sober ever since. There was nothing about your Center, treatment, or counselors that was not top notch in 1981. I can only imagine that it has gotten better over the years, kind of like me. I am so glad I have found your Website. I think of you often. I live in the foothills east of Sacramento now and hope to come by for a visit someday.
August 30,2006
Warmest regards, Jan, Volcano, Ca. - My dear friend is leaving Duffys today and I thank you for all you have done for him and with him. Willingness is the key. I am gratefully praying for him, the generous man who sent him to you and me...three years ago today was my last drink. God has blessed us all.
- My Mom just dropped my brother off at Duffys the other day. Prior to his arrival at Duffys, he didn't have the highest of hopes, but without even saying anything, I know his outlook on life has changed - even if just a little. He is such a smart and talented guy and deserves to have a beautiful life. I hope that Duffy s will be able to give him the help and tools needed to obtain that. After reading all of these wonderful comments, I honestly believe that my big brother has a chance. God Bless all of you wonderful people there that are willing to help individuals like my brother. We love him with all of our hearts.
- My son is there now He doesn't have hope Please help him Don't let him give up, I love him so much.
- I taped a lot of your talks over 35 anyway. Any time Duffy would be in the bay area I was there. I stayed at Duffy for a weekend just to get away from the hustle and bustle of city life. I have a great time even if it was 24 years ago. I now live in Roseburg OR. But think of Duffy often. I will be 25 Feb 14 2007 do you have Birthday Meetings it would mean a lot for me to get that chip at Duffys. My name is Irene and I am an alcoholic - Thank you Duffy
- I stayed with you in Nov. 2004 and found my new life. I had that pink cloud for about 4 month and made a mistake in getting married, but know it is all good and we have moved on with our lives. You guys taught me how to deal with tough situations and I learned a great deal about my spirituality. All I need is to know how work it and to use the tools given to me. I cannot thank you enough for that.
July 2,2006
Thanks again-Scot Johnson - Thanks to everyone at Duffys for helping me get back to recovery. I just celebrated one year clean and I feel grateful for all the people I met their and the life that has been provided to me. I would like to return soon to visit for two days and even like to do some work with others if that would be ok.
June 2,2006
Brian Laliberty
